Never give up
- January 03, 2018
I could see myself dressing him and the smile on his face, that is why I never give up!
This was exactly what happened. The exact way I imagined in my mind during so many months.
What I learned from this experience is that when I want something, I have to be very clear. If I really believe, then it will happen. The desire came from my heart. I “knew” it was the best that could happen. And it did.
Of course, I needed to make decisions and act upon certain things. However I believed. I knew that it will happen, or better saying: “It already happened”. It really made me focus on my goal “all the time”.
I heard so many times and read so many books and articles about The Law of Attraction, Visualisation to attract prosperity, love, health so I decided to give it a go.
It is not a matter to have a certain faith or religion, it was just to “believe in my dreams”. So, I decided to set my mind to be fully focused on my goal “all the time”.
Showing to my mind what “exactly” I want, made a huge difference on the way I went through the challenges without a doubt that I would achieve.
I printed a photo from the school website and attached to my mirror, a place where I look every day.
Wouldn’t it be good if everything we desire come to us smoothly? We should be enjoying the journey instead of chasing it or getting frustrated when challenges appears and we lose focus.
The principle seems very simple. If I know what I want or where I want to be, nothing will change my mind or block my path!
But in practice it seems difficult because there are always obstacles that get in our way…
Never give up!
No matter the challenge I faced, I never strayed off my path, I never gave up. I went through them all, crying, screaming, learning but I dealt with it, because I was focused on my goal.
Gradually, I started to think in a positive way in all situations. I notice a change in how I dealt with the challenges in my life.
The felling: It is already in my hands!
Like a meditation, a moment for myself. Just 5 or 10 minutes a day to “feel” that I was already holding it!
Looking at the picture in the mirror, and I could feel it’s texture, how soft it was. I could see its bright colour. The wonderful smell of something new, the feeling of opening a beautiful gift that you always wanted.
“Thoughts become things. If you SEE it in your mind, you will hold it in your hand!”
When I achieved, the first image that came to my mind wasn’t the paperwork or any other millions of things I’ve done. It was “that” simple picture on my mirror that now is my point of reference to other things that I want to achieve and never give up!
A simple photo print of a school jumper from a school that I wanted my child to attend.
You might be thinking: “oh, is that it?”
Well, I might say that it was not just “a” school. It was “The School“.
Lots of work and battles to win, but it worth it. It was just a printed photo from a school website.
“What don’t kill you makes your stronger”, seven words of wisdom that we learn just with experience.
I remained strong and I followed my gut! I was not open to listen to anyone who wanted to block my way. The “system” also made it difficult. Well, not for me, because I knew what I wanted and I carried on until I reached my goal.
It took me a while to write this post and I changed the text a few times. However every time I beginning to write, something keeps pushing me to say more. It might a sign…
It may be the moment to tell my experience and may help other “special mums and dads” out there.
So, Never give up on yourself and never give up on someone you love!
Sometimes we might feel down, sometimes we might feel up.
Life is made of moments, nothing is forever.
Everything pass, even happy moments…
So remember always: “it will pass”
Cry, if you fell so, let the tears take it way…
There are things that cannot be cured or solved but we need to carry on and learn to let it go…
Let it go is one of the more difficult lessons and everyone will experience this in different periods of life.
Cry, scream, but let it go…
It does not worth to fight for things that is out of your control. Choose your battles wisely.
Don’t spend your energy worrying about people that does not care for you or your loved ones.
Remember: They will also learn their lessons at some point in life.
So, let it go… it will pass…
“The secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new”. Socrates
Have you thought about your next goal?
See my photo collage where I am also using this technique here: Photo Collage
Love you all ❤