How Does Law of Attraction Work? | List of Goals to Set for Yourself
- July 04, 2018
Do you know how to use the law of attraction?
To make the law of attraction work it is crucial that you understand the law of attraction definition.
Start thinking about the meaning of the word “attraction”. What comes to your mind first?
A love attraction is a good example. Let’s have a look at another example: What do you see in the picture below?
Let’s think about the force that pulls the magnets to the fridge door. You might have some in your fridge.
What happens when you try to take out the magnets and stick to the fridge door again? There is a force between the two objects. You can feel in your hands.
The Law of Attraction could be compared to “the force” that attracts the two objects above.
How to apply the Law of Attraction?
Knowing the definition of the law of attraction you now need to have a goal, a dream.
Something that you want so you can focus on and “use the force” in your favour.
Maybe you already have a question in mind: How people get rich? How they get so famous or successful from scratch?
If you think it looks so easy for them you might do not know the truth. However, one thing is certain: They have focus and they went all the way to get what they want.
Therefore, to use the law of attraction you need to “know what you want”.
It’s not just saying “I want money” or “I want a husband” or “I want a car”, “I want a job” etc etc.
It’s all about believing and focusing on what you want. Because this is the way the Law of Attraction works.
Whatever you are believing and focusing you will attract in your life. That means, good or bad. So, be mindful in your thoughts.
A quote from Albert Einstein says: “There are two ways you can live: as if nothing is a miracle or as if everything is a miracle”
I will explain some techniques that I use and works for me, so I hope it will benefit you.
Firstly let’s think about love. What is love? Have you ever fall in love?
I am not just talking about a “love relationship” but the love for anything! It could be anything that you desire.
This simple exercise is to help you understand and be aware of your feelings and senses,
Choose a place where you feel as comfortable as possible with no interruptions. I like to do this sometimes in my bedroom, looking at the window to my garden or going to the park and find a quiet space.
It’s easier for me to relax if I am close to nature, so you should try this.
In your thoughts and imagination you can make your dreams come true so let’s bring it to your reality!
Let the thoughts come to your mind. Try to think about everything you really want.
You might say: “Oh, but I want so many things”, yep, but one of the secrets is to focus, so prioritize what is the number 1 priority for you at this moment.
When you realize what it is, focus on the feeling and where exactly it is coming in your body.
Keep this moment in your mind.
1. List of Goals to Set for Yourself
Make a list of your dreams. Set priorities but start with something that is reasonable easier.
If you focus on one goal at a time, it will be easier to achieve what you want. And you would see the results quickly as you do not get distracted with anything else.
Once you see it happen in front of your eyes you will be motivated to repeat the process.
So, do you know what you really want?
If you don’t know, how you are going to make it happen?
You need to feel your heart: Is it a new car, a job, a house, to travel, to find love, to go to University, to move to another country? What is your dream?
You might have many dreams, of course, but do it step by step as I mentioned above.
What is more important now? What would open doors to other dreams?
Maybe, just an example, you want to buy a house. Well, big dream, you might think… but hey! It’s not impossible!
But, and this is a big “but”, if you think that you will never be going to get, that’s exactly what will happen.
This is because “you are believing that it will not happen”. Got it?
A list of Goals to Set for Yourself is what you need to start to make your dreams a reality.
It will be easier to try with something small as buying something that is not too expensive, a small trip, jewellery or meet someone.
Practice the techniques with small projects.
Practice makes perfect so the more you do the easier it will get. Your brain will start to think in the new positive way.
Eventually, you would attract more and more without too much effort. Like learning to ride a bike, once learned you never forget and you ride any bike at any time.
2. Believe in your Dream
Do you want to make your dreams come true? If you don’t believe in your dream who will?
Imagine all details, create in your mind, draw, create a board with pictures, anything to help you focus.
Sometimes just a few changes in your life or few actions will open doors. It would help to attract Prosperity, Health, Love, and make your dreams come true!
So, believing that it is possible is the second secret. Do not have doubts that you will accomplish.
For now, do not think about “how” you are going to get there, just believe you already have it. This is very important.
Let’s look at the next steps to make your dreams a reality!
3. Feel it with all our your senses
Let’s go back to your priority. You know what you want and you know the feeling, right? Keep the feeling and now expand.
Look at every single detail of your “dream”, for example:
If it is a car that you want, you need to identify which car it is, the make, the model, the colour, everything about the car.
Go, and do a test drive, seat in the car, feel the steering wheel, feel the seats, is it leather?
Smell it, touch the car, feel how smoothly it is, turn the radio on, what music is it playing at this moment?
Turn the car on, listen to the motor, drive it, how do you feel when driving it? Open the window, feel the breeze touching your skin.
Keep it all in your mind, everything that you experienced in this day. Check the prices and everything else.
The car already exists, it is there. You’ve seen it, you’ve touched it, you’ve felt it, you’ve smelled it, you’ve heard it.
You interacted with all your senses. It is real and you want to bring this to your reality and the law of attraction will start to work once you believe it is possible.
Of, course it’s not just “wanting” something that it will happen. You need to act. However you saw, you know it exists.
It’s now just a matter of bringing it to you.
When we focus we do things better, we achieve our goal. Think about a football match. What does the team want? To win, of course.
But what they need to do to win? goals! but there are other players and these are challenges along the way.
However the team is focused, they know what they want. They “move around” the challenges that are “other players”.
That’s exactly what we need to do. Never let the negative thoughts discourage you.
The way to do this is Focus!
When you are focused and believing that what you want already exists, things would start to happen.
You can call coincidences, but doors would start to open to paths to help you achieve your goal.
5. Keep your dreams to yourself
Yep, a very important one: “shush…. be quiet until you reach your goal”.
Well, some people don’t bother with other opinions and keep on track of their dreams no matter what other people think.
But if you feel demotivated by someone that might tell you: “oh, but you are crazy or it will never happen” so why bother telling them?
It’s your dream, not theirs.
6. Make your Dreams a Reality
Start to looking around for the clues that might come to you. These are doors that are opening and you need to chose to walk through or not. That’s why you need to be focused.
Maybe someone will approach you and offer you a new job. This could be what you need to can earn more and get the house or car of your dreams.
Perhaps would be a change in a career that you never thought about it.
You cannot just wait that things are going to fall from the sky while you are sitting on the sofa.
For example, if you need money you might need to get a job. Read more about how to get a job interview in my article “how to get a job” here.
If something unexpected happens or if you meet someone new that comes to you with new ideas don’t just ignore.
Remember your goals “always” so it might have a connection to what you want to achieve. Open your eyes to the unexpected and make your dreams a reality!
Read one example of how I used the Law of Attraction in my life here.
One author that I highly recommend is Rhonda Byrne and there are other books as well where you can learn more.
Start making simple changes in your life and the way you think and reach your goals exactly the way you always wanted.
See other books here and be ready for the amazing life you are about to create! Make your dreams a reality with these simple steps!
So, focus on your dreams! Create a list of goals to set for yourself, use the Law of Attraction and Make your dreams a reality.
If you already used the Law of Attraction, let me know your opinion and if it worked for you.